We can never know what to want ,
because, living only one life, we can neither
compare it with our previous lives
nor perfect it in our lives to come .
MILAN KUNDERA ,
The Unbearable Lightness of Being PkWMm1vvUHQsegDQb1q9utyU3b2HPN/QBUtqE4Hyqs7gbjM4mX42gG9XM9Y0Jmw4