We can never know what to want ,

because, living only one life, we can neither

compare it with our previous lives

nor perfect it in our lives to come .

MILAN KUNDERA ,

The Unbearable Lightness of Being 6lhLKOA3eu64Ru2Yzhn7gVQmn8cRBQKTJc9L2cinS3XQYLb7UeWyLMfMyDwIFQ1/