We can never know what to want ,
because, living only one life, we can neither
compare it with our previous lives
nor perfect it in our lives to come .
MILAN KUNDERA ,
The Unbearable Lightness of Being y/GvXDnmUO+MAlz1E476hFbVY4BkJ8Y3H+eTD428JJ+7lr3J/Lgdfn85rft1SVdU