先淡后浓,先疏后亲,先达后近,交友道也。
先淡薄而后浓厚,先疏远而后密切,先了解而后亲近。——这些都是交友之道。
First be indifferent to and then be considerate towards; first keep at a distance and then get close to; first be communicative and then be friendly with. — All these are the rules for making friends and the ways to get along with them.