大事难事看担当,逆境顺境看襟度,临喜临怒看涵养,群行群止看识见。
一个人是否有担当,就看他在大事难事面前怎么去做。
一个人是否有胸襟,就看他在顺境和逆境中如何表现。
一个人是否有涵养,就看他在喜怒哀乐时的情感表达。
一个人是否有识见,就看他与众人相处时的行为举止。
To make sure if a man is reliable or not is to observe what he does when confronted with important and/or difficult things.
To make sure if a man is large-minded or not is to observe how he behaves in advantage as well as in disadvantage.
To make sure if a man is well cultured or not is to observe what he acts in the face of occurrences, pleasing or annoying.
To make sure if a man is wide in experience or not is to observe how he has a go in getting along with the multitude.