Good manners are a key to smoother social interactions. We express our gratitude for the help we get from other people and offer our apologies when we do something wrong.These are the rules of interpersonal relations.Sometimes gratitude and apologies are only an manifestation of personal comportments.Excess of such expressions result only in humility.Consideration should also be given to the circumstances in which wefind ourselves and we should guard against megalomaniac arrogance and egoistic presumption.
礼貌是获得畅通的社会交往的关键。得到别人的帮助要致谢,做了失礼的事要道歉,这是人际交往的法则。有的时候表示谢意和歉意只是一种风度的体现,不必言词过于谦卑,表示感谢和道歉的措辞要视具体情况而定,不可妄自菲薄或者妄自尊大。
accident['æhsldənt]n.事故
acknowledge[əh'nαildʒ]v.承认,致谢
apologize[ə'PαiədʒalZ]v.道歉
block[biαh]n.街区
appreciate[ə'Pri:ʃielt]v.理解,感谢
bother['bαðə(r)]v.打扰
generosity[,dʒenə'rαsəti]n.慷慨
constructive[hən'strʌhtlV]adj.建设性的
concerning[hən's3:nlŋ]prep.关于
interrupt[,lntə'rʌPt]v.打断
gratitude['grætltjU:d]n.谢意,感激
grateful['greltfl]adj.感激的
opportunity[,αPə'tjU:nəti]n.机会
thesis['oi:sls]n.论文
traffic jam堵车
Expressing Thanks(表示感谢)
1.Thank you.
谢谢你。
2.Thank you very much.
非常感谢。
3.Thanks a lot.
多谢。
4.Thank you so much for your gift.
非常感谢你的礼物。
5.I can't thank you enough for your help.
对你的帮助我真是感激不尽。
6.We appreciate what you have done for us.
我们感激你为我们所做的一切。
7.I am grateful for the opportunity you offered me.
对于你给我提供的机会,我很感激。
8.We are thankful for your generosity.
我们感谢您的慷慨。
9.I owe you many thanks for your kind assistance.
我非常感激你热心的帮助。
10.I will acknowledge your constructive advice in my thesis.
我会在论文里对您建设性的建议致谢。
Making Apologies(致歉)
11.Sorry.
对不起。
12.Sorry for being late.
对不起,迟到了。
13.I am very sorry.
非常对不起。
14.I feel so sorry for my absence.
我缺席了,很抱歉。
15.Sorry about the mistake we made.
对于我们犯的错误很抱歉。
16.Sorry, I didn't mean it.
对不起,我不是故意的。
17.You must apologize for what you have done.
你应该为你的所作所为道歉。
18.Please accept our apologies.
请接受我们的歉意。
19.I am very sorry for your loss;we'll make it up to you.
对于你的损失我很抱歉,我们会补偿你的。
20.I'm terribly sorry for it;I'll never let it happen again.
对此我非常抱歉,这再也不会发生了。
1.Tom:Why are you late for the meeting?
Lily:I am sorry. I was caught in a traffic jam.
汤姆:你为什么开会迟到了?
丽丽:对不起,我堵车了。
2.Jenny:Sorry for the trouble I made you.
Jack:Not trouble at all.
珍妮:对不起,给你惹麻烦了。
杰克:没什么麻烦。
3.Man:Oh, I stepped on your toes.Sorry!
Lady:That'all right.
男士:很对不起,我踩了您的脚。
女士:没关系,下次小心了。
4.Jack:So sorry about it.I hope I can make it up to you.
Girl:Forget it.
杰克:为此我很抱歉,希望我能补偿您。
女孩:算了。
5.Man:Please accept our apologies for the accident.
Woman:I'll never let it happen again.
男士:请接受我们就此事故的歉意。
女士:别让这种事情再重演了。
Expressing Thanks(道谢)
Jack:Jenny, thank you for your help with my paper.
Jenny:It's my pleasure if I have done something helpful to you.
Jack:I am really grateful for the reference books you offered me. But for the materials, I would not have written my paper so quickly.
Jenny:You areflattering me.I am interested in your paper, and I happen to have some books concerning the topic.
Jack:Your books are precious to me. Besides, you have given me some very good suggestions.I can't thank you enough.
Jack:You are always welcome.
杰克:珍妮,谢谢你对我论文写作上的帮助。
珍妮:能做点对你有帮助的事,是我的茉幸。
杰克:你给我的参考书,我真是很感激。如果没有那些资料,我写论文的不会这么快的。
珍妮:你过奖了。我对你的论文很感兴趣,碰巧我有些跟这个题目有关的书。
杰克:你的书对我来说很珍贵。另外,你还给我提了一些很好的建议,我真是感激不尽。
珍妮:不用客气。
Saying Sorry(致歉)
Tom:Hello, Lily, you'vefinally come.
Lily:I am very sorry, Tom. I'mfifteen minutes late.
Tom:Never mind. I just wondered what happened to you.
Lily:I was caught in a bad traffic jam three blocks away.I thought it would be faster if I walked here.
Tom:Don't blame yourself for it. It's not unusual to get caught in traffic jams at such a rush hour.
Lily:I didn't really expect there were so many cars on the streets. Next time I will leave home earlier.
汤姆:你好,丽丽,你终于来了。
丽丽:非常对不起,汤姆。我迟到了十五分钟。
汤姆:没关系。我只是不知道你出了什么事。
丽丽:我碰上大堵车了,就在离这里三个街区的地方。我想要是我走过来会更快些。
汤姆:不要责备自己,在这样交通高峰的时候堵车井不少见。
丽丽:我真没想到街上会有这么多车。下次我会早点出发的。